From restaurateur to Seabourn baby, have I been reborn or completely lost the plot?
Its been 7.5 weeks since I left Ireland to my latest and by far, greatest, challenge. I often question myself about whether if I knew what I was getting into would I actually have gone ahead of it but the answer is still yes.
Why am I here? Its a question our ever curious guests ask and some times I have to ask myself.
The answers are simple, and the same for most of the crew on board - we're here for the money and the adventure. God knows, you can pick up a challenge like this anywhere but this is a different level of experience and personal and professional growth! My first contract should pay off a substantial amount of the bills left behind by trying to keep my beautiful restaurant afloat, Inland Revenue off my back and my staff employed and paid on time. After receiving a 5 week extension that I applied for I can now also fly my amazing mam to Singapore to spend a few days unwinding from work and getting to thank one of the most brilliant people I know before returning to Eire for a cold and wet week or two before coming back for another long contract.
Working on board is a huge step up and also a step down from where I was but there are some amazing parts to it, for one I have the absolute pleasure to work alongside some of the most hard-working and dedicated team of people who are experts in what they are employed to do. I cannot even try to tell you on here how the utility guys (the ones who wash the dishes, scrub the ship kitchens from top to bottom three times a day) the housekeeping girls, the laundry guys - the nuts and bolts of the hotel end of the restaurant and bars, are the most incredible people. Mostly Filipino and here on 9 month contracts, yes ladies and gentlemen, that is 9 solid months of early starts, late finishes and not a single day off! I shared a transit back to the ship with one of my colleagues who's wife gave birth 2 weeks ago his first born, a son, who he will not see until he is 4 months old. So when I feel a bit sorry for myself that I am spending 5 months without a day off or a night off I don't feel so bad all things considered.
Having opened several Thai restaurants/take-away in Dublin, I have come to learn a lot about the Asian community and how they can dedicate such a big portion of their lives and sacrifice events like these to make sure that little man grows up with more than they did, to be able to send him to college and to make a tonne more money than they would do at home. I've watched the Thai and Chinese ladies and men who I worked with at home do this
Then there's the management, the MaƮtre D and all the assistants below who help form the management team who 'manage' us. And boy do they manage us. I've now learned to know what is expected of me and try my very hardest to play by their rules! When you figure out the rules and how best to avoid a trip to the office or getting 'banana' (into trouble) on your shift you must play the game well. Rules change all the time but the basics remain the same. But remembering that everyone above has in one way or another had to suck it up like I am doing and have worked their way to where they are. Nothing good comes easy here but am hoping that it will be all worth it.
As for the guests, they're pretty damned awesome too, currently on a private charter of Jazz musicians but will be swapping them over to 420 new guests for our Greece cruise coming up next before we depart the Med and move on through Jerusalem and Nazareth and on to Asia and Dubai.
Who knows what the next few weeks will bring, last few weeks have brought untold trials and tribulations and adjustments, a bad cold, aching body, self doubt and incredible frustration. The last few weeks have also been amazing, I've seen tonnes of the Mediterranean; Spain, Italy, France, Corsica, Malta and now will be doing Greece, Asia and some places that are on the top of my travel bucket list. Sure you don't get to see enough of them, or sometimes even get off the ship to even smell the air on shore but its a whole lot more than what I would be seeing if I was at home running a restaurant!
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Wednesday, 7 October 2015
Friday, 14 August 2015
Finally in France...Bonjour
Here in Nice, France. Nap Had, coffee in hand, Wifi sorted. Quick blog Then down to the pool I reckon!
After so long talking about going and getting an early start this morning I'm finally here in Nice. Delighted to say not a single glitch getting here, making my re-introduction to the world of travel super pleasant. There's always impending That feeling of 'what have I forgotten?' or 'madam your luggage Exceeds the weight and we're going to load you Reviews another € 100' and the old 'I'm sorry purpose we need to tear apart your luggage Because You forgot You Had one of mascara thingy somewhere in your PRECISELY packed piece of hand luggage 'Nope, not a thing, Even Had the sense to wear flipflops and a non-belted pair of comfy trousers Delighted qui me yet again in the non-removal of Both items at security.

Sitting enjoying a celebratory glass of bubbles and was joined by a lovely group of hens heading to Prague to get up to some mischief. Future hubby was steps ahead of them having already booked and pre-paid 4 bottles of bubbles for them. He's a keeper for sure!!!
And very quickly I was invited for a second and third glass before making my short journey to the the boarding gate.
I have to hand it to the DAA, Terminal 2 is very well done!
Easy fight and lovely neighbours sitting next to me chatting about life and food and crisp sandwiches (nice touch Aer Lingus on the menu!) And here I am in Nice.
Pulling out of the airport on the shuttle bus, which dropped me in a very pain-in-the-ass 'good walk' from the hotel with luggage for 4 months, I Noticed Their drop-off point at the airport with a big sign " KISS and FLY take A Few Extra Minutes "LOVE IT !!! very French - right?
Checked in, and yes I Will tonight-have a room mate, someone who will be joining me as crew on the ship. Its going to be a bit strange sharing a hotel room with a full stranger goal I have to get used to it considering I will be sharing a space with a much smaller randomer (who no doubt will become a good friend) for the next 4 months.
So, 5 or 6 years ago I Was in Nice before following a horrendous purpose incredibly powerful 4 day 4 country cycle which finished in Monaco / Monte Carlo, where I will be boarding the boat tomorrow. We left Monte Carlo and came here and stayed in this very hotel for our final celebration party and prior to returning to Ireland. I figured that out when I got my itinerary. BUT when I came to the 7th floor and went to the room, I nearly fell over to find that I had the key in my hand for the very room we stayed in that night five years ago hillarious ... or what? Life has one very cool way of reminding me of journeys, friends and wierd Things That Happen when you are exploring life!
Here's to an endless summer of magical experiences, lots of fun, hard work and new friends. Certainly I won't be Forgetting my old ones Who made harder leaving and life better!
After so long talking about going and getting an early start this morning I'm finally here in Nice. Delighted to say not a single glitch getting here, making my re-introduction to the world of travel super pleasant. There's always impending That feeling of 'what have I forgotten?' or 'madam your luggage Exceeds the weight and we're going to load you Reviews another € 100' and the old 'I'm sorry purpose we need to tear apart your luggage Because You forgot You Had one of mascara thingy somewhere in your PRECISELY packed piece of hand luggage 'Nope, not a thing, Even Had the sense to wear flipflops and a non-belted pair of comfy trousers Delighted qui me yet again in the non-removal of Both items at security.

Sitting enjoying a celebratory glass of bubbles and was joined by a lovely group of hens heading to Prague to get up to some mischief. Future hubby was steps ahead of them having already booked and pre-paid 4 bottles of bubbles for them. He's a keeper for sure!!!And very quickly I was invited for a second and third glass before making my short journey to the the boarding gate.
I have to hand it to the DAA, Terminal 2 is very well done!
Easy fight and lovely neighbours sitting next to me chatting about life and food and crisp sandwiches (nice touch Aer Lingus on the menu!) And here I am in Nice.
Pulling out of the airport on the shuttle bus, which dropped me in a very pain-in-the-ass 'good walk' from the hotel with luggage for 4 months, I Noticed Their drop-off point at the airport with a big sign " KISS and FLY take A Few Extra Minutes "LOVE IT !!! very French - right?
Checked in, and yes I Will tonight-have a room mate, someone who will be joining me as crew on the ship. Its going to be a bit strange sharing a hotel room with a full stranger goal I have to get used to it considering I will be sharing a space with a much smaller randomer (who no doubt will become a good friend) for the next 4 months.
So, 5 or 6 years ago I Was in Nice before following a horrendous purpose incredibly powerful 4 day 4 country cycle which finished in Monaco / Monte Carlo, where I will be boarding the boat tomorrow. We left Monte Carlo and came here and stayed in this very hotel for our final celebration party and prior to returning to Ireland. I figured that out when I got my itinerary. BUT when I came to the 7th floor and went to the room, I nearly fell over to find that I had the key in my hand for the very room we stayed in that night five years ago hillarious ... or what? Life has one very cool way of reminding me of journeys, friends and wierd Things That Happen when you are exploring life!
Here's to an endless summer of magical experiences, lots of fun, hard work and new friends. Certainly I won't be Forgetting my old ones Who made harder leaving and life better!
Come follow me on my adventure, I'm on facebook https://facebook.com/moiraswanderlust and on Twitter https://twitter.com/moiragray and of course there Instagram https://instagram.com/moiraswanderlust/
Wednesday, 5 August 2015
Ready Steady.....
Finally, after several exhausted and painful attempts to get this blog up and going, I'm here!
With just 8 days to lift off, I am excited to say the least. Flight details arrived last night, I'm so excited about this new adventure I would nearly go sit in the airport now and wait!
WHY? This will be my first flight since I returned from Rio in December 2012! Yep, the joys of opening and running your own business and being self-employed on the beautiful island I have called home for the first and last 10 years of my life, IRELAND.
Will I be sad to say goodbye for another few years? Hell no! Do I regret being back here for the last 10 years, absolutely not. Ireland is a great place, full of wonderful, ambitious, mischievous people - some of whom I will miss but suspect that adventure and my new job will overtake any feelings of loneliness.
I have always wanted to go on a cruise and strike a few more places off my travel bucket list. Forcing myself into something outside my comfort zone (which is apparently where the magic happens) has re-ignited a passion that was dampened after loosing everything I had and I'm feeling like a very powerful Phoenix again. And no, this is not plan B. I'm on about plan E or F at this stage and have already got G,H,I in place should this one not work out because thankfully there are 27 letters in the alphabet :) I am a big believer in 'its not what happens to you - its how you deal with it'
So, the countdown is on, I have moved house, done medicals, applied for visas, received itineraries for flights and my next 4 months on board Seabourn Sojourn, learned rules and regulations (so I can be ahead of the rest when I get on board), watched numerous you tube videos and got to know the ship even before I have seen it in person, said farewells, spent extra time with nieces and nephews, organised a bon voyage drinks session, started packing.
Am I nervous? yeah a little, I will be sharing a cabin with some lucky cailin, a big change from sharing a big apartment with a flatmate in Dublin. I will have a whole new family of over 300 people who I will spend day and night working and living alongside. Every 7-21 days will have a whole new set of customers to get to know and take care of. I wonder how long it will take me to make manager? I wonder what my manager will be like? Will I find my sea-legs soon?
on the flipside... I'M GOING ON AN ADVENTURE!!! I get to do what I do best and that is meet and take care of some really cool people, I get to wake up in a different country pretty much every day for the next 4 months (and years to come), I get to get my butt back to the gym, I get to save money and see TONNES of places that I have been dying to see and am not going to wait until I am in my 50's or 60's to do! My camera is charged and ready to go and I would do backflips if my back would allow. And FOOOOOOD!!!! I get to discover and learn and eat lots of wierd, wonderful and delicious food, steal more recipes and meet more chefs, cooks and legends. I get to see some amazing sunrises and sunsets, to be soothed to sleep with the gentle rocking of the ocean.
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